May 4, 2026

Nobody Cares About Your Listings (Here’s What Actually Works in CRE Marketing)

Nobody Cares About Your Listings (Here’s What Actually Works in CRE Marketing)

In this episode of Commercial Real Estate Secrets, we break down why most CRE content gets ignored—and what actually drives engagement, relationships, and real deal flow in today’s market.


If you’re still posting “just listed” and “just sold” and wondering why nothing is happening, this episode will change how you think about marketing.


What you’ll learn in this episode:

• Why most commercial real estate social media posts fail

• The biggest misconception brokers have about content and marketing

• How to turn your personal brand into a deal-generating machine

• Why engagement matters more than followers

• How consistency and authenticity compound into real business over time


Whether you're just getting started or trying to refine your content strategy, this will help you rethink what works in CRE marketing today.


To see how social media and content marketing actually work in commercial real estate, learn how Aviva Sonenreich built one of the strongest digital platforms in the industry:

https://warehousehotline.com/commercial-real-estate-brokers-denver/aviva-sonenreich/

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Can you tell me what marketing
in commercial real estate looks

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like?
It's all about the

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relationships, whether you are a
corporate brand or you are a

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personal brand, It should be
about the relationships and the

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community that you're fostering
online.

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I actually just got an e-mail
from somebody yesterday and

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they're like, this person has so
many.

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It's not a person, it's a brand
has so many followers on

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Instagram and literally their
engagements.

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Nothing.
Why is this?

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And I'm like, if you go look at
their followers, the followers

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are legitimate, but the brand
itself does not actively engage

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with their followers.
So anybody who leaves a comment,

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they never comment back.
And they don't take the time as

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a brand to go and foster those
relationships with the people

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that are following them.
And that is a big disconnect for

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all corporate brands.
And if you're a little person

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listening right now, that is a
big disconnect for you too,

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because I see you guys doing it
too.

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Guilty.
What's a big misconception you

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think people have about posting
social media content about

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commercial real estate online?
Biggest misconception is they

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assume that it's sales, and I'm
talking like sale, sale, sale.

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Look at what I got here, you
know, look what I just sold,

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blah, blah, blah, blah.
Who gives a crap?

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Nobody cares.
The only way you're going to get

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somebody to care about that is
if you tell a story behind it.

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If there was a hard lesson
learned in it, maybe it's a huge

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benefit to the person who either
bought or sold the property or

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it was a leasing assignment that
was really tough.

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Tell the story.
Nobody cares about the accolades

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that you're trying to build up
for yourself.

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They just, they don't care about
that.

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They do care about learning and
finding something else.

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Like say it's something about
you that maybe you learned.

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What it boils down to is, and
this is going to sound so bad,

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not like I've ever said anything
bad before, We're basically

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we've become voyeurs and we want
to be involved in your life

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without actually being involved
in your life.

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And the more that you can make
us feel like we're a part of

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that conversation, the better it
is.

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It's so funny.
My husband too is my broker

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partner and I are working on a
deal right now and this is a

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brutal deal from A-Z.
And I just keep looking at him

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and I'm like it's OK.
Like there's going to be a

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really funny, whether it closes
or not out of our control, but

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going to be a really good story
at the end of this and it will

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be told because Oh my God.
But how do you think social

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media has changed marketing in
commercial real estate?

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Well, commercial real estate is
far behind residential real

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estate when it comes to
marketing, so there is a huge

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wide open playing field for
anybody who wants to jump in on

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it.
I think what it's going to make

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people realize, and it's a Gary
Vaynerchuk thing, so it's not

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even a me thing.
But for years Gary Vaynerchuk

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said every company is going to
be a media company.

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And my whole point was at ICSC,
I loved seeing everybody

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reporting what I call reporting
or documenting from the field.

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They were taking video.
They were putting these great

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videos together, montage clips.
You're going to have to start

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looking at your brokerage
business as a media company.

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That's what it boils down to.
100%, it's so interesting.

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Gary's talking a lot right now
about, yes, you can make the

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sale and you can gain in the
immediate term, But if you build

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a brand, you build longevity for
your business to gain in

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perpetuity in the long term,
which I find is just really

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interesting.
And something I'm trying to wrap

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my head around right now in
commercial real estate because

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it's like you said, like this
has been a sales, it's a sales

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and relationship business.
But brand has been so, so

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neglected in the industry in my
opinion because I don't think

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stringing together last names
and color schemes is branding.

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But that's just me.
You know who's doing a really

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great job and they do not
sponsor me.

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I do not.
None of that stuff.

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Who does a really, really good
job is Krexi.

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I really appreciate Krexi's
content a lot, and it's because

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they are creating that brand.
They're creating a part where

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you want to see their content,
you want to get involved in what

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they're doing.
It has to make you stop the

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scroll and wants a comment.
If it's not causing you to do

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that, then you have to
reevaluate what's going on with

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your brand.
Oh, yeah, yeah.

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Ain't that the truth?
OK, I want to talk to you about

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the person who gets on Instagram
and they post for maybe two or

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three months and they don't see
immediate results and so they

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stop.
Can you talk about longevity in

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posting in marketing, commercial
real estate, social media and

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what that looks like and the
differentiator between posting

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for a couple weeks or months and
posting for a couple, well for

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years plus?
It's a great question and most

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people have a short attention
span and they want those

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immediate results.
And social media is a long game.

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It really is.
If people aren't paying

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attention to your content, you
need to look at your content and

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see what you're doing.
If you have to look at your

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content and go, am I interested
in this or would I pass this by,

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then you know we're going to do
bombastic side eye, right?

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Like maybe maybe you should
change up your content.

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So not just Instagram, but let's
talk about LinkedIn.

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So there was a stat that came
out earlier this year that said

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that 70% of all posts that are
put on LinkedIn never receive a

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like or a comment.
Holy moly.

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So like if you're not receiving
anything on your your content,

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welcome to the club.
Like you're you're with the 70%

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of the people that post.
So don't feel so bad if that's

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the case.
If if you want any of the

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algorithms to pick you up, you
need to not post in Ghost.

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You need to actually go and
actively engage on OPP.

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You need to go actively engage
on other people's posts.

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That I learned I I messed this
up and I'm willing to come out

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here and say it versus just
showing everything is good,

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everything is roses, life is
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I think for some people, some of
the best posts that they've ever

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had is when they talk about
their struggles because it lets

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everybody else know, hey, like
you're not the only one.

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And we are so as connected as we
are, we are so starved for that

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connection with another person,
right?

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Like we're so starved to
actually feel something that

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somebody else is going through
that we can relate to.

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And so when we do share those
things, and it can happen in a

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professional way, that content
from what I've seen just flies

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it, it grows, it's so huge.
So I like to categorize

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commercial real estate
professionals.

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Am I going to be happy to hear
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Yeah, yeah, you're all right.
You're you're good.

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You're on the good side.
You're with the good Guess

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you're Batman.
OK, so I have my local community

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of commercial real estate
professionals and they're not

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Batman.
They hate the Internet.

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They OK, I'm sorry, let me take
that back.

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They don't hate the Internet,
but they are anti social media.

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You know, they live behind the
big brands and they look down on

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social media and it's sell,
sell, sell.

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And I often times get looked
down upon for my approach, which

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I find is ironic.
But then I met this larger

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community of commercial real
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Once I started posting online, I
started meeting people who have

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the same job I do and think like
me and happened to be really

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fun, cool people.
And that was this community of

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commercial real estate
professionals.

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It doesn't have to be a broker.
It could be a syndicator or like

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you, a marketing thought leader
or somebody like, you know,

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strip mall guy.
So I just wanted to take this

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moment to thank all of the
brokers in my market who don't

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go on social media because you
help my business so much and I

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can literally yell at them from
the mountaintops about why they

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need to and they won't do it.
Nope.

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Why?
Why?

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Because they're stuck in their
ways and as of right now, they

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are under the assumption and
belief that they're going to

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continue to create relationships
without really thinking about

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the fact that as their clientele
dies, their clientele's children

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or their clientele's, whoever
holds that, whatever it is that

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assets, that isn't just a face
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It's what are you doing online?
How are you connected?

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What kind of company culture do
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And if the company culture
doesn't align with what that

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person wants, you're probably
going to lose them.

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And it's just it Again, it comes
down to that relationships, but

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we want more.
We want more than just the

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surface.
We want to be able to connect on

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a deeper level.
Regardless of what anybody says,

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that's what we want.
And social media is a way for

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you to be able to do that.
And it's also a way for lurkers

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to find out if you're the a real
deal, right?

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I've had people come up to me at
conferences and say, I follow

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you on social and I'm like, I
don't recognize them because

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I've never seen them like, or
comment on any of my content,

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right?
Like, oh, OK, that's great.

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Yay.
You like comment, let me know

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who you are so I can figure out
like, I could see who you are,

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you know, like in real life.
And, and we can have that

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connection.
The ones that I've had great

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connections with, we've talked
in DMS, we, we comment on each

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other's posts and it's, it is
like just knowing who that

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person is.
Like we met in real life at

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Beth's Women's Real Estate
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I didn't think about that.
So we met it there and I was

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like, Amita, I know who you are.
We, we've chatted online and

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we've comment on each other's
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And I already felt like I knew
you so.

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Yeah.
I mean, that's how we connected.

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Was like, I saw MO host, you
know, and then it was like, OK,

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like this is social media
marketing in commercial real

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estate, you know, and then you
start checking it out, name to a

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face, DMS and then meet in
person and it feels like we know

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each other.
I think there's magic.

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I think that's what's like funny
to me is like the hack and the

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magic is that you make a video
or, and you post a piece of

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content online and then you go
to sleep and the algorithm is

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working for you and people are
interacting with you when you're

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sleeping.
And for somebody like me who

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needs 8 hours of sleep and to
shut off, it networks for you.

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And it's insanely powerful.
And that's just why I live and

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die by it because it's compound
interest.

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And as investment professionals,
we have to know and love

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compound interest.